I won't say that I regret my actions and wish that I could undo them.
Today, I committed murder with malice and plenty of forethought. Once it was done, I was glad that I followed through on my thoughts and murdered the father of my child.
It wasn't an easy decision, but it wasn't a hard one either. For so long now, I've had to live with so much anger and rage and I finally feel as if that burden has been lifted from me. Of course there are plenty of things that I will never be able to say to him.
Even more things that I'll never again hear him say to me or Bird....but I'm really and truly ok with that.
It's been six months since the final conversation between the two of us and with the way things have deteriorated, I know without a shadow of a doubt, there wasn't any hope for reconciliation.
So he's dead.
At least to my daughter and myself.
I killed him off in my head. In case you were wondering, I pictured him as the victim of a horrific car accident where he was thrown from the car and severely mangled and dismembered, although he didn't die until hours later from his internal injuries. I pictured a lovely memorial service for him as well.
I know it seems drastic to say that someone is dead, however...
It has been six months.
Six months of me wondering if he'll ever pick up the phone to acknowledge the existence of his child. Six months of waiting for some type of support or financial assistance as I care for her. Six months of wondering why I don't even receive common courtesy and respect from the person who once called me their best friend. Six months of watching him coo and adulate his new daughter and become so enthralled with his new family.
Six long ass months.
That's a long time to have salt rubbed in your open wounds.
So I decided that in order for me to heal and stop wondering why he didn't call, I had to provide him with a good reason for why he couldn't call.
And everyone knows that dead men don't know how to use cell phones....